I have this girlfriend who tries to play mind games with her boyfriend anyone familiar with this one?

That's some serious ysis you've got going there (I thought I was bad). To me he sounds less confused than irritated, and given that you haven't described a match made in heaven my guess is that it's the beginning of the end. Hopefully his cleverness does not extend to finding the most brutal manner in which to dump someone, but either way if I were you I'd put an extra pack of tissues in my handbag.